Psychoanalysis and the Struggle for Love: A Kaleidoscopic View

Author(s) : Mark Kinet

Psychoanalysis and the Struggle for Love: A Kaleidoscopic View

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  • Publisher : Routledge
  • Published : September 2026
  • Cover : Paperback
  • Pages : 226
  • Category :
    Forthcoming
  • Category 2 :
    Psychoanalysis
  • Catalogue No : 98627
  • ISBN 13 : 9781041217329
  • ISBN 10 : 1041217323
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In Psychoanalysis and the Struggle for Love, psychiatrist and psychoanalyst Mark Kinet brings together decades of clinical experience, theoretical insight, and cultural curiosity to explore love in all its forms: tender and erotic, destructive and restorative, ancient and digital.

Moving effortlessly between the works of Freud, Lacan, Klein, Winnicott, Balint, Bion, and contemporary neuropsychoanalysis, Kinet reveals how love shapes the psyche from infancy to adulthood, from the consulting room to the wider culture. Across a series of vivid chapters, ranging from early trauma to desire, perversion, seduction, idealisation, digital intimacy, and the healing potential of the analytic setting, this book offers a panoramic portrait of the human need for connection. Kinet combines rigorous clinical thinking with literary and philosophical depth, while offering a clear and compassionate account of why love matters and why it so often goes awry. A compelling exploration of the human heart and the forces that bind us to one another, this is psychoanalysis written with depth, clarity, and warmth.

Written in Kinet’s signature engaging and accessible style, this is a vital book for clinicians, readers of mind and culture, and anyone fascinated by the fragile and untidy beauty of love.

Reviews and Endorsements

If you want to understand love, Lacan, sex or psychoanalysis, read Kinet!
Arnon Grunberg, novelist, essayist, and columnist, Netherlands

For Freud, love boiled down to sex, assuming all pleasures arise from a broadly ‘sexual’ drive. For biologists, sex is important because of reproduction; yet, why do we so frequently obtain sexual pleasures in non-procreative ways? In this book — a moving meditation upon love in all its guises — Mark Kinet re-prioritises the mental side, with profound implications for our understanding of the mind’s place in Nature: feelings clearly have intrinsic causal powers.
Mark Solms, psychoanalyst and neuropsychologist, Professor of Neuropsychology at the University of Cape Town (SA) and founding father of Neuropsychoanalysis.

These psychoanalytic essays on love’s struggles range from Freud to Solms, from Plato to Žižek, traversing deep chasms and celestial heights, from prehistory to science fiction, and from the womb to AI. Their chemistry might disenchant, but their alchemy deepens mystery. A kaleidoscopic perspective opens the reader’s mind, also thanks to a style that lucidly names what emerges from darkness. Must read for professionals and lovers.
Paul Verhaeghe, emeritus Professor of Psychoanalysis at Ghent University and an internationally acclaimed author.

Psychoanalysis and the Struggle for Love is a sweeping and deeply humane exploration of what it means to love, to desire, and to be recognised. Dr Kinet brings together psychoanalysis, philosophy, and clinical wisdom to illuminate love's generative possibilities and its contradictions. This is a beautifully written, intellectually vibrant book that clinicians and thoughtful readers alike will return to again and again.
Mark L. Ruffalo, M.S.W., D.Psa., Assistant Professor of Psychiatry, University of Central Florida College of Medicine, Florida, USA

Do not read this book by Mark Kinet — because it is too beautiful, too compelling, too accurate. Every chapter, every paragraph, every line, every sentence, like a ballerina, makes a leap and lands on its feet where it makes its point — its pointe. Kinet’s sentences sharpen our thoughts, honing them until they cut precisely at the place where we believe the matters of love ‘settle’.
Marc De Kesel, philosopher and essayist, emeritus Professor at Radboud University Nijmegen (NL) and former associate professor of philosophy at Saint Paul University, Ottawa, Canada.

Psychoanalysis and the Struggle for Love is a wide-ranging meditation on love as the central, conflicted force of our lives. Mark Kinet holds together psychoanalytic insight with philosophy, literature, and clinical sensibility in a voice that is lucid and humane. The result is a book that invites readers to think, and rethink, what loving truly means.
Arthur Eaton, PhD, psychoanalyst, journalist and author based in Amsterdam, Netherlands

In Psychoanalysis and the Struggle for Love, Mark Kinet brings together philosophy, psychoanalysis, and literature and, in a brilliant, thought-provoking way, shows how love can passionately push people beyond themselves or drag them into catastrophic depths. This is a marvellous book about the many paradoxes of love and, therefore, about what it means to be human.
Herman Westerink, Associate and Endowed Professor at the Centre for Contemporary European Philosophy, Radboud University Nijmegen, Netherlands.

Table of Contents

1. The Bubble
2. Prologue. Psychoanalysis and the Struggle for Love
3. Love’s Infinitives
4. Lovestruck
5. First Love
6. Labrador Love
7. Animal Love
8. The Square of Desire
9. Biologised Love

Panoramic Intermezzo I

10. Love between Neuro and Meta
11. The Ideal of Love
12. Love Sung
13. Artful Love
14. Mystic Love
15. Love as an Event
16. The Beloved Mirror

Panoramic Intermezzo II

17. Transference Love
18. A Loving Place
19. The Couple on the Couch?
20. Love Generations
21. The Shadows of Love
22. Unnatural Love
23. Passion Victims

Panoramic Intermezzo III

24. A Radiography of Seduction
25. The Sweetest Lust
26. Pornocracy
27. Contemporary Love?
28. Internet Love
29. The Consumption of Love
30. Dying of Love
31. From Prehistoric to Futuristic Love

Panoramic Intermezzo IV

32. The Algorithms of Love

About the Author(s)

Mark Kinet is a psychiatrist, psychotherapist, and psychoanalyst. He has authored or (co-)edited some thirty books on psychiatry and psychotherapy, psychoanalysis, and culture issues. His website can be found at: www.markkinet.be

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