Understanding Sibling Rivalry: The Brazelton Way

This is an insightful new guide on one of childhood's greatest challenges. The teasing, squabbling, competition and ferocious fights of brothers and sisters can drive any parent to frantic desperation. At the same time, Drs Brazelton and Sparrow point out, siblings are learning from one another and deep, close relationships are forming that will last a lifetime. In this indispensable addition to the "Brazelton Way" series, the authors show how parents can defuse much of the bickering, while helping to strengthen warm relationships. They help parents understand the universal "touchpoints" of sibling rivalry at each age, as well as the problems in particular family situations. From the combined delight and resentment that a sibling feels toward a new baby, to birth order, blended families, sex play, scapegoats, meltdowns and competition in school, parents will find welcome advice in this wise, comforting book.